The holidays can be particularly difficult because they highlight absence and amplify emotions tied to memory, tradition, and togetherness.
Small acts of kindness from family and friends connect us and give hope. Bo’s Place can provide an additional layer of support to the bereaved, offering multiple grief support services for children, adults, and families. We believe that it is helpful and healing for those who are grieving to share their stories, memories, experiences, thoughts, and feelings with those who can understand their journey.
Will you show your support for grieving families this holiday season by making a donation to help them on their healing journey?
Please make an online donation now. At Bo’s Place, no one ever has to grieve alone.
Tips to support the bereaved during the holidays
- Acknowledge the death – Say the name of the loved one who died; it shows you care.
- Reach out – Let them know you are thinking of them during the holidays. A simple message or call can mean a lot.
- Offer specific help – “Can I help with gift shopping?” is better than “Let me know if you need anything.”
- Honor memories – Encourage sharing stories or creating small rituals of remembrance.
- Be patient – Grief doesn’t follow a schedule; allow them to feel what they feel.
- Include them – Invite them, but understand if they decline or leave early.
- Provide an accepting space – Sometimes quiet companionship is the best comfort. Meet them where they are at that moment.
- Respect their choices – They may want to keep or change traditions. Both are okay.
- Check in later – The weeks after the holidays can be even harder.
